I wouldn't worry about swings. As long as the TDS is in close range with the tap water, which yours is, water changes won't cause a swing, but on the contrary, stabilise the tank. The problem with crushed coral is that it doesn't raise the KH much at all. Soft water in nature can have other types of natural buffers such as humic and fulvic compounds. In hard water they actually reduce the KH we measure for, in soft water they act as buffers. This can be achieved via leaf litter and the likes.
If it is disease related, the last thing I'd recommend trying is flubendazole. Its a broad spectrum deworming medication. It is sold in the UK as Kusuri Wormer Plus and is normally delivered internationally. Last year I cured one very sickly loach I had bought. I was able to keep him alive for 2-3 months via lots of water changes but he wasn't growing, was eating but getting skinnier, and stayed white as a sheet. In the end I dosed flubendazole and he started recovering within days. His buddy I bought at the same time with him visible on the first picture, was never affected.
Here are a couple of pictures a year apart.
February 2017-the very pale loach..

January 2018 -loach on the left of the picture.
