G. ocellatus will sit around in small groups
You'll never see ctenos doing that. They're basically nuts as far as I'm concerned. Even in my 65 they're at it constantly.
I've had a bunch of ocellatus (pictured) together in a 30H with a big shoal of kyathit danios and they lived totally amicably with one another. I only once saw a fight that lasted any duration.
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No damage resulted at all. A 250 gph powerhead on a River-Tank manifold is going to provide masses of water movement, but not much unidirectional current, due to the tank length. Unidirectional current is the icing on the cake of my design in a long tank, but it does still give excellent circulation due to the max separation of pump and intake in a short tank. No stream is totally uni-directional. There's flow reversals and turbulances going on all over the place.
Tammy, I would go with what you've got, what you can afford and above all the deciding factor on what you keep will come down to personal preference and what your local shop gets in.
Once the baby is born and things maybe get more settled, plus hopefully you have the finances, you could upsize to a 36" or whatever. If you've got to buy the tube and fittings, get enough for a 36" or 48" even, plus two in-line joining adaptors. Glue the lengthways tubes in one end manifold, but leave the other end as a push fit. Then, when the time comes for an upgrade you can easily slip in extra length to the manifold.
Think ahead

Martin.