What I do is live in an apartment with concrete floors
Anyhow....your problem. Now, knowing Home Despot's adverts, they have all sorts of experts there to give advice. Short of getting a structural engineer out to check the house which might be expensive, even if strengthening is a DIY job, it might be worth doing the following:
Give the HD guy as much info as possible. I'm assuming that you've got basement access? Measure everything so he knows what you have there already. Height from joists to sub-floor, dimensions of vertical and joist support beams, spacing between them, thickness of floorboards, etc.
Take pictures too if you have a camera available, or do decent drawings that show the relationship of structures to your dimensions.
Remember to take into consideration the weight of the tank, stand, substrate (I got two bags of playsand in my 6 footer....darn heavy!) rockwork, water, etc. and maybe add 50 lbs or more as a margin of error.
Be assured that the stuff to do the job
will be at Home Depot. Just depends if you guys are willing to get stuck in and have the necessary tools, or get in a tradesman to do the deed.
Definitely not worth taking chances.
Martin.